11 Ways to Turn Your Man On Without Touching Him

Written by Jenina - The Relationship Diva
When it comes to seducing your man, there is one thing that’s true: if the chemistry’s there, the right touch is all it takes to take your private time to the sexiest level.

But, what about keeping the fire going without touch? It’s possible to build some serious heat and passion that way, making him so hot he won’t be able to wait to get at you. And maybe when all that tension bubbles over and you have no choice but to finally get it on, it may top some of the best sex you’ve ever had. After all, isn’t that how it usually goes when you satisfy an unbelievable craving?

So try one of these ways to turn him on and build the tension for your next heat-filled night!

• Peep show: Giving him a chance to watch as you undress or shower is a special show just for him. So next time you’re heading for an extra long shower or slipping out of your clothes after a long day, let him watch. He’ll be climbing the walls to touch you.
• Sexy notes, texts, or photos: When he can’t be near you, leaving him little reminders of the fact that you can’t wait to ravage him is a great way to keep him thinking of – and craving – you. Scribble him little notes or take some hot photos and leave them at his place or in his pocket. (Of course, you may want to spell out to your man that it’s meant for only his eyes).
• Midnight phone call: After a long day, his voice can do just the trick to put you to bed, especially if you can’t be together. Consider calling him in the middle of the night and tellingl him you are thinking of him. It may lead to a midnight phone sex session that may make him run over to your place to satisfy the urge.
• Musical seduction: We all know there are some songs that can do wonders to get you in the mood. Classic jams by Marvin Gaye and Al Green, or even Maxwell, Usher, Ne-Yo, or Tyrese define “sexy”. Try burning some of your favorites and slipping a CD into his bag or leaving it at his place. That’ll be the only soundtrack you need the next time you see each other.
• Blindfolded taste test: Cover your man’s eyes and sit him down to feed him tasty fruits and treats, and have him guess what they are. The mix of not knowing what’s coming next, tasting decadent flavors, and you feeding him will definitely excite him!
• Wear his favorites to bed: Put on a sexy nightie and wear it to bed the next time he stays over. Watching that satin or silk on you will certainly be enough for him to scoop you in his arms and have his way with you.
• Move your body: Do some sexy stretches to soft music while he’s in the room. Watch him put the Blackberry aside or put down the remote just to pay attention to your every bend and curve. He’ll love it.
• Cybersexin’: This is the age of the Internet. So use it! Set up a date via instant messenger with your man and start describing what you would do to each other. Soon, your fingers will be burning up the keyboard as you get carried away with your fantasy – and you’ll be itching to try it all out.
• Sexy movies: Movies with a steamy sex scene always make for good viewing time. Choose a few, like Disappearing Acts or Unfaithful, with some hot scenes and bring it over for a movie night. Now there’s a nice treat.
• Leave your scent: Is there a fragrance you wear that he can’t get enough of? Try wearing some the next time you see him, or leave a little on his pillow. That should make for some very sweet dreams for him.
• Erotic story time: Bookstores are filled with sexy books that make for quick reads and have some very satisfying scenes. Pick one up, maybe your favorite titles by Zane, and read a couple of chapters together each night. Soon, you’ll be aching to act out your own chapters!

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18. Give Him Props

Great sex is all about angles — the angle of his erection and your pelvis determine exactly what hot spots he'll hit and how tightly he'll feel gripped. That's why pillows can be passion's best friend. Try one under his butt while you're on top or supporting your tailbone in the missionary position. You'll be surprised how many new sensations you both experience just by adding a pillow. —Paul Joannides, author of The Guide to Getting It On

19.Let Go Loudly!

Moan, let out animalistic noises or shout his name — whatever you have the urge to do. If you're embarrassed, just know that you're doing your partner a favor. The more you express your pleasure, the more you make him feel like the stud of the universe. Bonus: Your orgasms will be even more powerful if you really let 'er rip vocally.—Susan Block, PhD, sex therapist and author of The 10 Commandments of Pleasure

20. Just Add Lube

Your guy has what it takes to get you off, but there's one more thing that can seriously up your odds of climaxing. With a little extra lube, every touch and thrust will feel smoother and more pleasurable. And because you're wetter, he’ll feel more confident, which will inspire him to try new moves and positions. —Eric Garrison, author of Mastering Multiple-Position Sex

21. Turn-Around... and Turn Him On

Face his legs instead of his face when you're on top. (Hold on to his feet for balance.) He'll get a great view of your backside — a surefire turn-on. And if his erection points straight out instead of up, this position will feel especially incredible to him.—Paul Joannides, author of The Guide to Getting It On

22. Be the Boss in Bed

Tell your guy to lie down, then use handcuffs, scarves, or a necktie to tether his hands together so he can’t touch you. Next, you want to torture him playfully with your teasing. Slowly kiss your way down his torso, and just as you get to his pelvis, move back up to his ears and neck. As you tantalize him and he strains to touch you, ask him to tell you why he wants you so bad. Once he’s pleaded his case allow him to take over. —Candida Royalle, author of How to Tell a Naked Man What to Do

23. Don't Wait To Exhale

You can actually use your breath to control your orgasm. With each exhalation, imagine that you're pushing the satisfying sensations throughout your body — instead of just letting them build up below the waist. When you finally let go, you'll feel the orgasm from head to toe.—Nitya Lacroix, author of The Art of Tantric Sex

24. Maximize Each Moment

Try doing the same things you always do in the bedroom, but slow down to one-fourth of your normal speed. You and your guy will have time to really bond, and since you'll be feeling sensation over a longer period of time, your orgasms will likely be out of this world. —Barbara Keesling, author of Discover Your Sensual Potential

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12. Pucker Up

Share a passionate 10-second kiss every single day. A lot of couples keep having sex but stop really kissing. And that's a shame, because it's such a wonderful, intimate act. So just go up and lay one on him. Instantly, you'll feel passionate instead of platonic. What a rush!—Ellen Kreidman, author of The 10 Second Kiss

13. Touch a (Sensual) Nerve

One of the most explosive nerves in the body is located at the top of the inner thigh. Start by licking your finger (the wetness increases the stimulation) and slowly drawing it from the mid–inner thigh to the top. Then follow the path you just traced with your tongue, teasing your way to the upper region. Because the skin here is tender, it's important to watch how he reacts. If he flinches, you're exciting the nerve to the point where it feels too ticklish. If he flinches, give the area firmer kisses. —Lori Buckley, PhD, of The Better Sex Video Series

 14. Have Hotel Sex at Home

Try re-creating the away-from-home atmosphere in your own bedroom. Buy sheets with the highest threads-per-inch count you can find (look for 200 and above), and invest in some thick, fluffy robes to lounge around in. You'll both feel like you're on an incredible vacation from the rest of the world.—Ellen Kreidman, author of The 10 Second Kiss

 15. Make It a Quickie

If you're turned on at an inopportune time and in semi-public place, act on your feelings. Although it feels a little bit naughty, a quickie will help you stay faithful. People often have affairs solely for the illicit rush from doing something "bad." Quickies allow you to experience all of the having-an-affair thrill with none of the cheating.—Ellen Kreidman, author of The 10 Second Kiss

16. Keep Your Eyes Open

Watching his every move while you’re hooking up is a great way to explore more of the emotional side of intercourse. Start by kissing with your eyes open and looking at each other during foreplay. Gradually build up until you can sustain eye contact throughout both of your climaxes. You'll experience your orgasm in a totally different way. —Barbara Keesling, author of Discover Your Sensual Potential

 17. Taunt Him

You might be surprised how easily you can become synchronized. Lay your hand on his chest, and have him do the same. Since heart rate speeds up during orgasm, if you stay hand-to-heart connected while you do it, you'll feel how wild you're driving each other.—Barbara Keesling, author of Discover Your Sensual Potential

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He cupped her breasts with his soapy hands and thumbed her incredibly sensitive nipples. Bracketed by the delicate silver jewelry, they stood up, had swelled and every brush of his skin against them had her gasping and holding on to him.

“Good. Not another word.”

“But-“

He cut her off by lifting and spinning her until she was directly beneath the warm spray. The soap ran down her body until only warm water remained in rivulets. Logan began to catch them with his tongue, the shower running down his face as he sipped at her breasts and lapped at her tight, aching nipples. “So fucking gorgeous, Cherry. I love eating at these. I love eating all of you.”

Tara nearly lost her mind. Tingles multiplied and sizzled, firing her blood, burning hotter with his every word until he nearly shut down her brain.

He wedged his feet between hers and nudged her legs apart – and she was too far gone to object. Her stomach pulsed as he covered his mound possessively with his palm, fingers sliding into her slick folds.

“It’s so sexy how wet you get for me.”

She was still catching her breath when he lifted her body against his, arms straining, veins bulging, as he forced her legs around his waist and flattened her back to the wall. She hissed as the cold surface between her shoulders and the inferno of his flesh over her breasts. Heaven and hell all in one.

And she wanted it, him, throwing her arms around her neck as his cock bobbed between them, steely and thick and impossible to resist.

He bent, positioned himself at her entrance, and tried to impale her in one savage thrust.

“Take me,” he panted against her jaw, then covered her mouth with his.

Logan gripped her hips and pushed her down on his cock as he arched, trying to shove more of that fat blue head and those unyielding inches into her. She gasped against his lips – and he used the opening as an opportunity to thrust his tongue deep.

Tara couldn’t feel, hear, see, smell or taste anything except Logan. He overtook every sense, wrapping himself all around her with his strength, his conviction, his seduction. She’d had “Just sex” before. This was far more.

 With a whimper, she wriggled, trying to take all of his hard stalk. He cursed, eased back a fraction, then plowed so deeply into her body, her head fell back against the tile with a scream.

“That’s it, Cherry. Take every inch of me, sweet girl. Yeah,” he rasped into her ear as he stroked into her again, easier with each spine-tingling plunge. She softened to accommodate all of him.

“Logan.” She grabbed frantically at his hair. “God, you fill me up. I’ve never felt so alive.”

His lips razed across her jaw. “I’d been dead for years until you came back. Don’t leave me.”

Never, a voice inside her cried.

But was it really that simple? Could they simply resolve to be together? Her stepfather would oppose it. More important, they still had trust issues to bridge. In her head, she knew why Logan left her in high school. But for her heart, letting go of the pain and believing that he wouldn’t hurt her again wasn’t a matter of pure logic.

But when she was in his arms, like now, when he couldn’t seem to get close enough, she felt adored. Like the only woman in his world.

Logan cupped her, lifting her closer as he nipped her lobe and whispered to her. “You’re so beautiful, baby. I dreamed of you. Wanted you. Fantasized. For me, it’s always been you.”

And with every word, he forged deeper inside her slick, swelling pussy, scraping against her sensitized flesh. When he was like this, it was so easy to crave him, care about him, impossible to remember any reason she shouldn’t.

“That’s it, Cherry. Get all tight on me.” He slowed his strokes, lingering over the one  spot designed  to send her soaring.

“Please, Logan!” she dug her nails into his shoulders, feeling her world tilt out of control.

“It’s right here, baby. Let me give you what you need.” He grabbed her tighter, ground into her, against the spot that ached most.

That was all she had to hear. With his voice mingling with her racing heartbeat, and their bodies moving as one, pleasure rushed her. Overwhelmed by the sensation overtaking her body and Logan shouting her name, she reveled when he followed her into the rush, coming inside her in a hot, liquid release.