Foreplay Moves and Tips - Week #4

18. Give Him Props

Great sex is all about angles — the angle of his erection and your pelvis determine exactly what hot spots he'll hit and how tightly he'll feel gripped. That's why pillows can be passion's best friend. Try one under his butt while you're on top or supporting your tailbone in the missionary position. You'll be surprised how many new sensations you both experience just by adding a pillow. —Paul Joannides, author of The Guide to Getting It On

19.Let Go Loudly!

Moan, let out animalistic noises or shout his name — whatever you have the urge to do. If you're embarrassed, just know that you're doing your partner a favor. The more you express your pleasure, the more you make him feel like the stud of the universe. Bonus: Your orgasms will be even more powerful if you really let 'er rip vocally.—Susan Block, PhD, sex therapist and author of The 10 Commandments of Pleasure

20. Just Add Lube

Your guy has what it takes to get you off, but there's one more thing that can seriously up your odds of climaxing. With a little extra lube, every touch and thrust will feel smoother and more pleasurable. And because you're wetter, he’ll feel more confident, which will inspire him to try new moves and positions. —Eric Garrison, author of Mastering Multiple-Position Sex

21. Turn-Around... and Turn Him On

Face his legs instead of his face when you're on top. (Hold on to his feet for balance.) He'll get a great view of your backside — a surefire turn-on. And if his erection points straight out instead of up, this position will feel especially incredible to him.—Paul Joannides, author of The Guide to Getting It On

22. Be the Boss in Bed

Tell your guy to lie down, then use handcuffs, scarves, or a necktie to tether his hands together so he can’t touch you. Next, you want to torture him playfully with your teasing. Slowly kiss your way down his torso, and just as you get to his pelvis, move back up to his ears and neck. As you tantalize him and he strains to touch you, ask him to tell you why he wants you so bad. Once he’s pleaded his case allow him to take over. —Candida Royalle, author of How to Tell a Naked Man What to Do

23. Don't Wait To Exhale

You can actually use your breath to control your orgasm. With each exhalation, imagine that you're pushing the satisfying sensations throughout your body — instead of just letting them build up below the waist. When you finally let go, you'll feel the orgasm from head to toe.—Nitya Lacroix, author of The Art of Tantric Sex

24. Maximize Each Moment

Try doing the same things you always do in the bedroom, but slow down to one-fourth of your normal speed. You and your guy will have time to really bond, and since you'll be feeling sensation over a longer period of time, your orgasms will likely be out of this world. —Barbara Keesling, author of Discover Your Sensual Potential