Hottie of the Week: Bradley Cooper

Its a shame this photo doesn't show off his eyes better. This man is GORGEOUS!

Hottie of the Week: Joe Manganiello

Did you see Magic Mike? Was Joe your fav? Check out the six pack on that man! You know he hit the gym hard. Hot Damn!

11 Ways to Turn Your Man On Without Touching Him

Written by Jenina - The Relationship Diva
When it comes to seducing your man, there is one thing that’s true: if the chemistry’s there, the right touch is all it takes to take your private time to the sexiest level.

But, what about keeping the fire going without touch? It’s possible to build some serious heat and passion that way, making him so hot he won’t be able to wait to get at you. And maybe when all that tension bubbles over and you have no choice but to finally get it on, it may top some of the best sex you’ve ever had. After all, isn’t that how it usually goes when you satisfy an unbelievable craving?

So try one of these ways to turn him on and build the tension for your next heat-filled night!

• Peep show: Giving him a chance to watch as you undress or shower is a special show just for him. So next time you’re heading for an extra long shower or slipping out of your clothes after a long day, let him watch. He’ll be climbing the walls to touch you.
• Sexy notes, texts, or photos: When he can’t be near you, leaving him little reminders of the fact that you can’t wait to ravage him is a great way to keep him thinking of – and craving – you. Scribble him little notes or take some hot photos and leave them at his place or in his pocket. (Of course, you may want to spell out to your man that it’s meant for only his eyes).
• Midnight phone call: After a long day, his voice can do just the trick to put you to bed, especially if you can’t be together. Consider calling him in the middle of the night and tellingl him you are thinking of him. It may lead to a midnight phone sex session that may make him run over to your place to satisfy the urge.
• Musical seduction: We all know there are some songs that can do wonders to get you in the mood. Classic jams by Marvin Gaye and Al Green, or even Maxwell, Usher, Ne-Yo, or Tyrese define “sexy”. Try burning some of your favorites and slipping a CD into his bag or leaving it at his place. That’ll be the only soundtrack you need the next time you see each other.
• Blindfolded taste test: Cover your man’s eyes and sit him down to feed him tasty fruits and treats, and have him guess what they are. The mix of not knowing what’s coming next, tasting decadent flavors, and you feeding him will definitely excite him!
• Wear his favorites to bed: Put on a sexy nightie and wear it to bed the next time he stays over. Watching that satin or silk on you will certainly be enough for him to scoop you in his arms and have his way with you.
• Move your body: Do some sexy stretches to soft music while he’s in the room. Watch him put the Blackberry aside or put down the remote just to pay attention to your every bend and curve. He’ll love it.
• Cybersexin’: This is the age of the Internet. So use it! Set up a date via instant messenger with your man and start describing what you would do to each other. Soon, your fingers will be burning up the keyboard as you get carried away with your fantasy – and you’ll be itching to try it all out.
• Sexy movies: Movies with a steamy sex scene always make for good viewing time. Choose a few, like Disappearing Acts or Unfaithful, with some hot scenes and bring it over for a movie night. Now there’s a nice treat.
• Leave your scent: Is there a fragrance you wear that he can’t get enough of? Try wearing some the next time you see him, or leave a little on his pillow. That should make for some very sweet dreams for him.
• Erotic story time: Bookstores are filled with sexy books that make for quick reads and have some very satisfying scenes. Pick one up, maybe your favorite titles by Zane, and read a couple of chapters together each night. Soon, you’ll be aching to act out your own chapters!

Hottie of the Week: Ian Somerhalder

Would you like to see this man play Christina Gray?  I think he's my favorite pick.

Foreplay Moves and Tips - Week #4

18. Give Him Props

Great sex is all about angles — the angle of his erection and your pelvis determine exactly what hot spots he'll hit and how tightly he'll feel gripped. That's why pillows can be passion's best friend. Try one under his butt while you're on top or supporting your tailbone in the missionary position. You'll be surprised how many new sensations you both experience just by adding a pillow. —Paul Joannides, author of The Guide to Getting It On

19.Let Go Loudly!

Moan, let out animalistic noises or shout his name — whatever you have the urge to do. If you're embarrassed, just know that you're doing your partner a favor. The more you express your pleasure, the more you make him feel like the stud of the universe. Bonus: Your orgasms will be even more powerful if you really let 'er rip vocally.—Susan Block, PhD, sex therapist and author of The 10 Commandments of Pleasure

20. Just Add Lube

Your guy has what it takes to get you off, but there's one more thing that can seriously up your odds of climaxing. With a little extra lube, every touch and thrust will feel smoother and more pleasurable. And because you're wetter, he’ll feel more confident, which will inspire him to try new moves and positions. —Eric Garrison, author of Mastering Multiple-Position Sex

21. Turn-Around... and Turn Him On

Face his legs instead of his face when you're on top. (Hold on to his feet for balance.) He'll get a great view of your backside — a surefire turn-on. And if his erection points straight out instead of up, this position will feel especially incredible to him.—Paul Joannides, author of The Guide to Getting It On

22. Be the Boss in Bed

Tell your guy to lie down, then use handcuffs, scarves, or a necktie to tether his hands together so he can’t touch you. Next, you want to torture him playfully with your teasing. Slowly kiss your way down his torso, and just as you get to his pelvis, move back up to his ears and neck. As you tantalize him and he strains to touch you, ask him to tell you why he wants you so bad. Once he’s pleaded his case allow him to take over. —Candida Royalle, author of How to Tell a Naked Man What to Do

23. Don't Wait To Exhale

You can actually use your breath to control your orgasm. With each exhalation, imagine that you're pushing the satisfying sensations throughout your body — instead of just letting them build up below the waist. When you finally let go, you'll feel the orgasm from head to toe.—Nitya Lacroix, author of The Art of Tantric Sex

24. Maximize Each Moment

Try doing the same things you always do in the bedroom, but slow down to one-fourth of your normal speed. You and your guy will have time to really bond, and since you'll be feeling sensation over a longer period of time, your orgasms will likely be out of this world. —Barbara Keesling, author of Discover Your Sensual Potential

Hottie of the Week: Orlando Bloom

All you need is the eyes... you don't need anything else.. ok, maybe the lips too...who am I kidding, I'll take the whole damned package.

Foreplay Moves and Tips - Week #3

12. Pucker Up

Share a passionate 10-second kiss every single day. A lot of couples keep having sex but stop really kissing. And that's a shame, because it's such a wonderful, intimate act. So just go up and lay one on him. Instantly, you'll feel passionate instead of platonic. What a rush!—Ellen Kreidman, author of The 10 Second Kiss

13. Touch a (Sensual) Nerve

One of the most explosive nerves in the body is located at the top of the inner thigh. Start by licking your finger (the wetness increases the stimulation) and slowly drawing it from the mid–inner thigh to the top. Then follow the path you just traced with your tongue, teasing your way to the upper region. Because the skin here is tender, it's important to watch how he reacts. If he flinches, you're exciting the nerve to the point where it feels too ticklish. If he flinches, give the area firmer kisses. —Lori Buckley, PhD, of The Better Sex Video Series

 14. Have Hotel Sex at Home

Try re-creating the away-from-home atmosphere in your own bedroom. Buy sheets with the highest threads-per-inch count you can find (look for 200 and above), and invest in some thick, fluffy robes to lounge around in. You'll both feel like you're on an incredible vacation from the rest of the world.—Ellen Kreidman, author of The 10 Second Kiss

 15. Make It a Quickie

If you're turned on at an inopportune time and in semi-public place, act on your feelings. Although it feels a little bit naughty, a quickie will help you stay faithful. People often have affairs solely for the illicit rush from doing something "bad." Quickies allow you to experience all of the having-an-affair thrill with none of the cheating.—Ellen Kreidman, author of The 10 Second Kiss

16. Keep Your Eyes Open

Watching his every move while you’re hooking up is a great way to explore more of the emotional side of intercourse. Start by kissing with your eyes open and looking at each other during foreplay. Gradually build up until you can sustain eye contact throughout both of your climaxes. You'll experience your orgasm in a totally different way. —Barbara Keesling, author of Discover Your Sensual Potential

 17. Taunt Him

You might be surprised how easily you can become synchronized. Lay your hand on his chest, and have him do the same. Since heart rate speeds up during orgasm, if you stay hand-to-heart connected while you do it, you'll feel how wild you're driving each other.—Barbara Keesling, author of Discover Your Sensual Potential

Hottie of the Week: William Levy

I wasn't too sure who this delicious man was at first, but then I thought... do I really care? Just sit back and enjoy the view.

Belong to Me by Shayla Black #3

He cupped her breasts with his soapy hands and thumbed her incredibly sensitive nipples. Bracketed by the delicate silver jewelry, they stood up, had swelled and every brush of his skin against them had her gasping and holding on to him.

“Good. Not another word.”

“But-“

He cut her off by lifting and spinning her until she was directly beneath the warm spray. The soap ran down her body until only warm water remained in rivulets. Logan began to catch them with his tongue, the shower running down his face as he sipped at her breasts and lapped at her tight, aching nipples. “So fucking gorgeous, Cherry. I love eating at these. I love eating all of you.”

Tara nearly lost her mind. Tingles multiplied and sizzled, firing her blood, burning hotter with his every word until he nearly shut down her brain.

He wedged his feet between hers and nudged her legs apart – and she was too far gone to object. Her stomach pulsed as he covered his mound possessively with his palm, fingers sliding into her slick folds.

“It’s so sexy how wet you get for me.”

She was still catching her breath when he lifted her body against his, arms straining, veins bulging, as he forced her legs around his waist and flattened her back to the wall. She hissed as the cold surface between her shoulders and the inferno of his flesh over her breasts. Heaven and hell all in one.

And she wanted it, him, throwing her arms around her neck as his cock bobbed between them, steely and thick and impossible to resist.

He bent, positioned himself at her entrance, and tried to impale her in one savage thrust.

“Take me,” he panted against her jaw, then covered her mouth with his.

Logan gripped her hips and pushed her down on his cock as he arched, trying to shove more of that fat blue head and those unyielding inches into her. She gasped against his lips – and he used the opening as an opportunity to thrust his tongue deep.

Tara couldn’t feel, hear, see, smell or taste anything except Logan. He overtook every sense, wrapping himself all around her with his strength, his conviction, his seduction. She’d had “Just sex” before. This was far more.

 With a whimper, she wriggled, trying to take all of his hard stalk. He cursed, eased back a fraction, then plowed so deeply into her body, her head fell back against the tile with a scream.

“That’s it, Cherry. Take every inch of me, sweet girl. Yeah,” he rasped into her ear as he stroked into her again, easier with each spine-tingling plunge. She softened to accommodate all of him.

“Logan.” She grabbed frantically at his hair. “God, you fill me up. I’ve never felt so alive.”

His lips razed across her jaw. “I’d been dead for years until you came back. Don’t leave me.”

Never, a voice inside her cried.

But was it really that simple? Could they simply resolve to be together? Her stepfather would oppose it. More important, they still had trust issues to bridge. In her head, she knew why Logan left her in high school. But for her heart, letting go of the pain and believing that he wouldn’t hurt her again wasn’t a matter of pure logic.

But when she was in his arms, like now, when he couldn’t seem to get close enough, she felt adored. Like the only woman in his world.

Logan cupped her, lifting her closer as he nipped her lobe and whispered to her. “You’re so beautiful, baby. I dreamed of you. Wanted you. Fantasized. For me, it’s always been you.”

And with every word, he forged deeper inside her slick, swelling pussy, scraping against her sensitized flesh. When he was like this, it was so easy to crave him, care about him, impossible to remember any reason she shouldn’t.

“That’s it, Cherry. Get all tight on me.” He slowed his strokes, lingering over the one  spot designed  to send her soaring.

“Please, Logan!” she dug her nails into his shoulders, feeling her world tilt out of control.

“It’s right here, baby. Let me give you what you need.” He grabbed her tighter, ground into her, against the spot that ached most.

That was all she had to hear. With his voice mingling with her racing heartbeat, and their bodies moving as one, pleasure rushed her. Overwhelmed by the sensation overtaking her body and Logan shouting her name, she reveled when he followed her into the rush, coming inside her in a hot, liquid release.

Foreplay Moves and Tips - Week #2

6. Try Finger-Food Foreplay
Have a romantic dinner without utensils so you can feed each other. There's something sensual about placing food in your partner's mouth. After a meal like this, serve yourself for dessert.—Ellen Kreidman, author of The 10 Second Kiss

7. Love Your Booty

Look at yourself naked in a full-length mirror for five minutes a day and focus on what you love about your body. If this feels awkward, get ready or blow out your hair while standing naked in front of the mirror. By getting used to your unique shape, you'll gain confidence that will naturally spill over into your sex life and make you twice as enticing to your guy.—Barbara Keesling, author of Discover Your Sensual Potential

8. Slip into a Naughty Costume

Try one of these outfits since they'll help you get in the moment. If you’re feeling like a flirty, girlie tease, put on a white cotton undie set or sexy lingerie and pull your hair into a ponytail, or don a schoolgirl-like plaid miniskirt with an oxford shirt tied above your navel. To become an X-rated seductress, wear something red or black in sheer fabric or lace, then add crimson lipstick and nails. Outfits not only help you get in the moment, they also give him a visual turn-on and inspiration.—Jamye Waxman, author of Getting Off

9. Pleasure His Penis

Cup your hand around his member, creating a "bun" around his "hot dog." Then kiss the part of his penis that's exposed while breathing hard. Your hand will trap your exhalations and make his penis feel superhot. With your other hand, work his testicles. He'll think he has died and gone to heaven.—Paul Joannides, author of The Guide to Getting It On

10. Keep Your Pants On

Encourage your man to touch you when you have your favorite tight jeans on (and don't let him take them off). His hand can glide over your crotch more easily, and the material will transmit the sensations over a wider area.—Paul Joannides, author of The Guide to Getting It On

11. Toy with Him

Stock up on sex toys like velvet-lined handcuffs and silk blindfolds. You can never go wrong with a vibrator. Ask him to buzz it against your clitoris or tell him simply to sit back and watch you handle it. It will feel amazing for you, and he'll be turned on just by seeing you so turned on.—Susan Block, PhD, sex therapist and author of The 10 Commandments of Pleasure

Hottie of the Week: Chris Pine

One of the newer men to hit the big screen... am I ever happy he did.

Belong to Me by Shayla Black #2

“No, Logan. Damn it!”

He shot her a harsh stare. “I told you, I’ll grant your climax when it pleases me, baby. I’ll fuck you when I think you’re good and ready. If you’re damning me now, there’s still too much starch in your spine.”

His steely words reminded her that, while he had a heart, he was also a big, very bad Dom. Not once since they’d started having sex had he truly unleashed that side of himself on her. Last night, he’d been tender, but desperate to have her. During her training with Xander, he’d been downright possessive. After the public submission, he’d inhaled her.
Tonight, Logan would utterly dominate. This was his fantasy, and his searing stare told her that he planned to live it the fullest – while he drove her to the brink of sanity.

“Please, Logan. I need more.” He’d left her so close to orgasm that her body burned. The air conditioner kicked in, but it didn’t help. Instead, the air flow dragged a cool breeze across her nipples that sent her into a sensory tailspin. “I can’t take this.”

He dragged his fingers through  her soaking pussy again, then swirled them around her nipples, coating them with her essence, making the peak harder.  “You’re strong, Cherry. Trust that, if you give me what I want, I’ll give you what you need.”

A basic tenet of any good D/s relationship Tara tried to reassure herself that fact, but with her body on fire, perspiration beginning to coat her skin, and a haze of need clouding her thoughts, he could only whimper. Submitting everything to Logan in the privacy of his bedroom, when it meant so much to him, when he had complete control  of her every sensation, turning her on wildly.

“Can you do that?”

Honestly, she wasn’t sure, but she feared that if she said no, he’d stop everything and leave her to burn. “Yes, Logan.”

“Good girl.” Slowly, he released her wrists. “Get on the bed.”

Heart pounding, she did. Logan wasted no time in shackling each of her limbs at the corners of the bed, spreading her wide open. Then, still dressed in his leathers, he crawled between her knees, sat back on his heels and looked his fill.

Her skin burned under this dark, unwavering gaze. Spread so totally, feeling vulnerable, her pussy seeped with need. She writhed and arched, lifting her hips to him. “Touch me.”

“I told you, you’re not setting the pace or making the rules. Forget that again, Cherry, and I’ll have to punish you.” His silky tone belied the hard glitter of his eyes. “I’d rather savor you, so totally open to me. I want you good and ready for every nasty thing I’m going to do to you.”

At this words, her pussy clamped down. Empty inside, the aching hollowness consumed her, so acute it almost hurt. Without warning, Logan bent and lashed his hot tongue across her pussy. She cried out and bucked up,, the sudden jolt of pleasure stunning her. Tara wished desperately that Logan would cover her body with his, fill her with his cock, and take her hard.

Instead, he lifted his head, he face dark and intent in the mysterious shadows. “Ready to give me everything I want from you?”

“Yes! Take me. Anything. Everything.”

Logan pushed a strand of hair from her face, caressed her shoulder, her breast. “Good answer. I’m going to lift your pussy and ass up, baby. I want them spread wide open for me.”

His words thundered a dark desire through her as he slid a pillow beneath her hips, forcing her to tilt up. Her feet turned out, which spread her legs even more, exposing her completely. She fought to touch him, lure him closer, but he’d restrained her so thoroughly that she could only keep her legs spread and raise up to him in a silent plea he ignored.

With a feral smile, Logan slid a possessive hand over her mound. “Here, now, that’s no training, just us. It’s sweet to know that you like being at my mercy, Cherry. Too bad I’m not going to have any tonight.”

He scrambled off the bed to tear off his leathers, then he approached her, his body taut, huge cock standing tall and thick. He glided a gentle hand from her shoulder to one breast, circling, but not touching its tight nipple. As she gasped, arched, he moved down her abdomen, settling his fingers into her folds.

“I need to give you this dominate part of me, as much as I need you to submit yourself totally. I won’t rest until I know that you truly belong to me.”

When his gaze locked on hers again, every shred of the desire clawing at him reflected in his eyes. And determination. This was far more than sexual for him. He was playing for keeps.

Her heart turned over in his chest. An alternate thrill and panic rushed through her. What if she let her guard down and he broke her heart again?

What if he didn’t and ended up loving her for the rest of their lives?

His eyes hardened. “You’re starting to overanalyze this, Tara. Don’t.”

How could he know that, because he knew her so well?

“I’m giving you fair warning,” he whispered, lowering himself over her body. “Tune out those destructive worries and just feel.”

Logan captured her mouth with his in a kiss. The simple press of the lips quickly turned devasting as his tongue prowled deep, exploring her mouth with a thoroughness that staggered her, leaving her in no doubt of his dominance. He left his stamp of possession on her swollen lips, letting her know that he would take any and every part of her as he wished. As she whimpered, he proved that she didn’t want him any other way.

Tara felt herself slipping deeper into a well of desire with every stroke of his tongue against hers. She tried to press her body to his, but the shackles held strong. Instead, she threw herself desperately into the kiss, giving him every bit of her hunger.

Suddenly, he wrenched away and stared down at her, his eyes nearly black as he backed onto his knees and caressed his way down her body, leaving a trail of heat in his wake.

Then Logan settled himself between her thighs, and she quivered. Her heart pounded furiously as he held her gaze while he slowly bend to her pussy.

He lapped at her swollen, slick folds and opened her wider with the spread of his thumbs. “This is mine,” he murmured. “It’s always been mine.”

Yes!! The thought screamed through her brain, but she couldn’t gasp enough air to say it.

"I’m taking it back, Cherry. Right now.”

Nothing tentative about his statement or the torturous flicks of his tongue against her clit.

Heat spiraled, she bucked against the shackles. “Please, Logan.”

He ignored her plea and continued with his slow seduction of her flesh, circling her clit with a measured precision that drove her mad. He knew exactly where and how to touch her.

Again, she lifted up, tried to make him taste more of her, but Logan slid her arms beneath her thighs and wrapped them around her body, hands pressing down on her hips. With her thighs now over his shoulders and his face buried between them, she couldn’t move an inch.

“Tara, behave. You’ll get what you need when I get what I want.”

Again, he bent and resumed his slow devastation of her senses. And she could do nothing to stop him.

That knowledge sent an undeniable flare of heat bursting through her. He didn’t just arouse her body, but gave her something she craved on a deeper level, something she’d never felt or imagined before.  A connection, a give-and-take that she desperately needed.

Her moans turned more desperate with each heartbeat, the promise of sweet release looming closer. Her skin tingled, the sensation magnified as the air conditioner worked overtime, blowing cold air across her body.

Her hands fisted, and she clawed at her restraints. She gulped in huge breathes, tensed against the bombarding sensations as Logan’s tongue lashed her clit again and again. Jolts assailed her with every clever lap. She couldn’t breathe or think. A frantic scream scratched its way up to her throat and broke free as sparks erupted all through her body.

“Logan, I’m coming!” she cried out in the dark bedroom, breathless and throaty as her fingertips tingled, her blood turned heavy, and pleasure overtook her.

Climax held her in a ruthless grip. And Tara could do nothing but take it, succumb to its dark power. He moaned against her so-sensitive flesh, sending her higher and higher. She hadn’t known a climax could be seemingly endless, but the merciless pleasure wracked her body as pulse after pulse rolled over her.

And still, he kept eating at her like a starving man.

“Oh! Logan. I can’t stop.” Her protest sounded breathy. “It’s – oh….too much.”

Logan ignored her and swirled his tongue around her throbbing nub in a long, unhurried stroke. “I’m not finished baby. Come for me again.”

“But- “

He lapped at her pussy again and again, silencing her. The heat of his mouth spread more fire across her flesh. Then he pressed his fingers deep, deep inside her until the tingling promise of another orgasm shimmered through her.

Tara arched, frenzied. She hadn’t believed another orgasm was possible. Now, it was imminent. “Logan! Oh my… God. It’s too big, I can’t…”

She thrashed against the bonds, her shaking muscles pressing against his wide shoulders. He didn’t budge.

“You can. You’ll come for me.”

Edict given, Logan lowered his head and resumed torturing her with destructive flicks of his tongue and erotic presses of his fingers.

No matter how much she bucked or pleaded, he showed no mercy.  Logan razed her with the inferno he built inside her, and she cried out over and over as he sucked her clit into his mouth continuously and moaned over her swollen bundle of nerves.

Shocked at the white-hot pleasure tearing through her, Tara tried in vain to pull on her bonds. But the electricity settled between her legs, sharpened the sensation in her nipples. Her empty pussy clenched in protest as the overload of need became too strong to endure.

Shifting helplessly beneath him, Tara screamed his name until she went hoarse. With that ruthless mouth, he continued to streak fire through her cunt, lapping at her, stealing her juices for himself, then humming in approval when her body gave him more.

Conscious thought slipped away until all she knew as Logan and the seething pleasure he forced on her. Each possessive swipe of his tongue stole more of her sanity until every muscle in her body seized up.

“Come!” he demanded.

No way she could hold her climax back. It swept over her, searing her. She screamed as her entire body succumbed to the brutal wave of pleasure that battered her.

His mouth turned gentled, his licks slow as she emerged from the pleasure high. Finally, he pulled away. With an exhausted sigh, she gave herself over to her completely.

The second she did, he lifted his head to watch her with feral blue eyes. “There’s my sweet surrender. Now you’re ready for me to fuck you.”

Tara couldn’t look away as he unfastened the shackles at her wrists and ankles. Exhausted, she let Logan move her like a rag doll onto her hands and knees.

“Grab on to the headboard until I tell you otherwise.”

With a shaking sigh and a trembling body, she complied.

Positioning himself behind her, Logan grabbed her hips, aligned their bodies, and began pushing his cock inside her. She was so swollen, he had to shove his way in slowly, and she felt every inch he scraped down her pussy.

“Cherry…” He moaned as though pleasure agonized him while he pushed in deeper. “So tight.”

Besieged by tingles that reawakened her flesh, she inhaled sharply and pushed back on him, taking him deeper.

“Be still.” He voice shook, as if he was on the edge of his control.

Tara tried, but she couldn’t stop arching, moaning, clamping down as he worked inside. Logan, growled, then tightened his hands on her hips, forging in the rest of the way with one quick thrust.

Eyes going wide, she gasped. Oh God. Burned by every ridge and vein of Logan’s cock, she mewled. Her broken cries seemed to drive him mad, because he nuzzled her neck and silently dismantled her sanity one frenzied thrust after another.

“I need to fuck you, Cherry. I’ve never needed a woman the way I need to possess you.”

His words reached into her chest and squeezed. Tara felt not just desired, but cherished.

Logan wrapped his arm around her and latched on to her nipple, rolling it between his thumb and finger ruthlessly. “Take all of me, Cherry. Everything I give you.”
He didn’t just mean his cock, but all facets of him: his wry humor, his dominance, his caring nature.
His heart.

It was her last thought before he sank his teeth into her neck, pinched her clit, and set a wild pace that sent her soaring headlong into crushing pleasure again. He followed her down into the abyss of ecstasy that had her crying out as he flooded her with his hot release.

How to Give Your Guy a Tantric Massage

Love foreplay (who doesn't, right)? Take it to the next level by giving your guy a steamy tantric massage. This sexy sequence, designed by Patricia Johnson and Mark Michaels, co-authors of Tantra for Erotic Empowerment, is the perfect way to get his blood pumping—and yours.

By Korin Miller

Warm Up His Traps

People tend to have a lot of tightness in this muscle, which is located between the shoulder blades. Loosen his by putting some massage oil or lotion at the base of his spine. Layer one thumb on top of the other and slide them up his spine and end between his shoulder blades. Then use your thumbs to massage his upper back and release the tension that's stored there.

Get His Juices Flowing

Lightly tap the small of his back with the edges of your hands. This stimulates erotic energy, and the nerve impulses will go right to his genitals.

Use Your Lips

Wipe off any excess oil or lotion from his bod. Then, take a deep breath, and run your lips from the base of his spine to the nape of his neck, with one lip on each side of the spine (so your lips are essentially straddling his backbone). Exhale slowly as you move your lips up his back.

Create Friction

Using your hands, work your way up his back from the base of his spine to the nape of his neck. Go slowly and use your dominant hand (so if you're a righty, use that hand). This is a gentle and repeated up and down motion with the heel of your hand, on a small section at a time, using dry friction to generate heat.

Make It Hotter

Keep the dry friction rub going by stepping up the speed and moving it between his shoulder blades. This ups his state of relaxation and also adds more heat to his bod.

Warm Up His Package

Straddle your man and face his feet. Start at his ankle and use your thumb and forefinger to apply pressure on either side of his tendon as you work up his leg (but don't apply pressure to the tendon itself). Why his ankle? There's a pressure point along the tendon that's said to stimulate the prostate in men and to connect to his genitals. Your guy might notice a tingling in his leg. This is a sign you're near the spot. He should eventually feel it down there.

Use Your Bod

Here comes the super-sexy part: Get naked (if you're not already), and use your bod to massage your man. To do it, rub massage oil or lotion on yourself—the more, the better—and slide your front all over the back side of his body (Warning: You might want to lay a towel down underneath him first). Then, have him flip over and repeat, but don't let him enter you.

Stimulate His Nipples

This erogenous zone is usually neglected in men. While you're laying on top of him, use your mouth to lick and suck on his nipples. It should feel really good to him. At this point, the odds are high you both won't be able to wait any longer to get busy.

Hottie of the Week: Ryan Reynolds

Like fine wine, this man just keeps getting better with age. Don't you just want to like this man from head to toe?

Belong to Me #1

“What’s your safe word?”

“R-romeo.”

“Very good. Strip and hand your robe to Master Xander."

She’d known this command was coming, yet it startled her. Still, hesitation wasn’t going to accomplish anything, so she forced herself past her nerves and unbelted the little silk garment, shrugging it off her shoulders, down her arms. When Xander held out her hand, she gave it to him, not surprised to find that she was trembling.

Logan nodded, his expression full of approval. “Face the wall and kneel here.” He pointed to the ottoman.

Tara fought the urge to glare at Logan and instead looked at the padded cube like it was a snake. Once she complied, everyone would see her abundant ass. But her insecurities weren’t the issue. Submission was. She could do this for Darcy, for her own sense of success. And she would make Logan proud.

Facing the wall, she settled one knee down on the black vinyl, then another…The surface was cool, but soon warmed under her skin. But those shackles dangled just above eye level, and Xander turned a crank to raise them, they clinked against the wall, stirring up a whole new batch of fears.

Logan reached one and pried it open. “Give me your wrist.”

Oh God, oh God, oh God.  She forced down nausea, forced herself to forget that people were watching. She couldn’t see them, and they’d gone silent. She knew from her research, from being restrained earlier while Xander watched, that the best coping mechanism she had was to focus on Logan.

Finally, she drew in a rattling breath, then held out her wrist to him. He snapped it into the cuff just above her head, and she was started to find that the snug way it hugged her skin was almost comforting.

“Another hesitation will cost you, slave.”

A few feet away, Xander picked up the paddle from the nearby table and smacked it lustily against his hand with a grin. A part of her feared something that solid against her rear, having everyone watch her punishment. But some other part of her must like because moisture gushed from her slit. Shocked, she gasped.

Logan sent her a secretive little smile. “Your other wrist.”

This time, she didn’t dither. Logan’s touch calmed her even more as he settled her into the next shackle, then he squeezed her fingers before releasing her and walking over to the little table in the shadows.

Her belly clenched and turned again.

He took a long moment, then selected something. Tara couldn’t see what, since his body blocked her view. But once he had an instrument in hand, he walked behind her and caressed his way down her back, over her ass, lingering on one cheek.

“Bend at the waist.”

Tara sucked in a deep breath. Okay, he was going to spank her.

She’d managed this before, but tonight he was adding something new into the mix. The thought of that whip scared the hell out of her. She tensed, but complied as much she could, until her arms dangled from the shackles, pulling at her shoulders. The sensation felt foreign, but so submissive that it around something in her. Then she realized that, as she’d bent, she’d given the audience a perfect view of her pussy.

More embarrassment swirled with arousal through her body. A fresh flush crawled up her skin. Additional moisture coated her folds.

Circling her again, Logan fused his gaze to hers and cupped her breast. Though her back faced the audience, no one would have any doubt that he was fondling her in public. That should bother her….but any time Logan touched her, it felt so damn good. When he pinched her nipple, rubbing it between his thumb and forefinger, nothing but sensation and his touch mattered.

Unable to stop the sound, she moaned.

Logan scraped a thumbnail gently across her erect nipple. “Nice.”

Then he withdrew a pair of clamps from his pocket, attached to one another by a chain. Each end had two plastic balls attached that looked like…cherries? She glanced back up at him.

“There are weights at each end. And yes, I bought these just for you.”

It seemed silly to think that she welcomed nipple clamps because he’d been thinking of her when he purchased them, but she did. Of course, when he secured the first, it pinched and burned – for a moment. Just as it settled into a mellow numb haze, he repeated the process with the other nipple.

Heat rolled through her, and the ache behind her clit began to pulse in demand. No denying how wet she was now. Her labia felt slick, unbearably swollen. No doubt, everyone in the audience could see, but somehow that only aroused her more. She whimpered.

“Quiet,” he demanded.

Not a second later, she heard a whossh, then felt the tails of the flogger, almost like soft leather fringe, striking her ass. The sensation wasn’t pain exactly; it was too diffused for that. Instead, it felt more like a dozen fingers firmly caressing her, heating her skin. No way could she bruise from this, only catch fire.

Tara found herself arching, sticking her ass back for more. Logan splayed his palm in the middle of her spine and pressed gently, raising her backside another inch. Then he struck her with the flogger again, a bit harder than before. Still, it was pleasant, and she felt her mind begin to float away.

Smacks three and four each hit one of her cheeks. With her skin already sensitive, the burn kindled into a blaze. That heat spread outward, seeping into her bones. Her pussy clenched in protest against the emptiness that ratcheted up her hunger. And as he dragged the soft leather strips across her ass, fire burned under her skin, topped by a sweet sting that soon eased into a gentle tingle.

Closing her eyes, she gave more of herself to Logan, letting the shackles assume more of her weight. Her blood hummed as she awaited another smack with the flogger.

It never came.

Instead, he circled in front of her once more. “Look at me.”

She did, and the electric need in his eyes created an answering ping in her body. Whatever he wanted, yes. Tara knew she would give it to him, no questions asked.

“Good girl. Straighten up and spread your knees as wide as the pedestal allows.”

Pleasure and the sharp pang of want made her brain sluggish. It took her a second to process his command, but she complied finally. He nodded in approval, then tugged on the little weights one at a time. Fresh heat jolted down to her pussy. Her entire body tensed in need, and she whimpered.

“You look beautiful,” he murmured, his low, velvety tone warming her.

The, with a flick of his wrist, he unleashed the flogger’s supple leather. The ends landed with a gentle slap right on her mound. The ache expanded, rocketing upward, outward until she swore that every nerve in her body was wired straight to her swollen clit. But it wasn’t quite enough to push her over the edge.

Tara tossed her head back and cried out, forcing herself to hold back a plea. She needed  him inside her. She’d wanted him last night and this morning, but this ache was a living, breathing entity taking over her whole being, suppressing all but the desperate craving to feel Logan filling up every empty bit of her with every hard inch of him.

His burning blue eyes told her he knew that.

“Are you wet, slave?” he asked loudly. He wanted the audience to hear.

“Yes, Logan.”

“You’ve been very good. I’ll reward you soon.”

He dropped the flogger and stepped forward, wraping one hand around her waist, anchoring the other in her hair. His mouth covered hers, his tongue demanding entrance, seducing her submission.

Feminine gasps erupted around the room. They confused Tara until she remembered Xander saying that not only did Logan never have sex with the subs, he never kissed them. And suddenly, she understood: Logan wasn’t just having her publicly submit. He was explicitly staking his claim.

Something warm erupted inside her. Though she couldn’t touch him with her hands because of the shackles, she met every nuance of the kiss with her own delight and need, showing him – and everyone – how totally she accepted him in this moment as the master of her body. He pulled her against every hard inch of his frame, her clamped nipples rasping against his bare chest. And she melted.

When Logan pulled back and searched her eyes with curiosity and wonder, he was panting. Tara wanted nothing more then to sink back down into that endless kiss and join with him forever, but he caressed her face, then stepped away. Every part of her ached for him, so focused on his actions, on pleasing him.

Then Xander stepped forward.

Tara sucked in a breath. He was going to touch her? In public?

“Accept his touch because I demand it of you, slave,” Logan’s voice rang harsh in the air, but his blue eyes scanned her, concerned and checking her response.

“Yes, Logan.” The words slipped out automatically.

With a wicked grin, Xander approached, trailing a finger in the valley between her breasts, caressing the under swell of one. Then he disappeared behind her and breathed kisses along her shoulders. Her skin tingled; she shuddered. Her belly knotted.

“If Logan gave me the chance, I’d fuck you here,” he whispered, caressing her ass.  “I’d sink my cock so deep inside you while Logan plundered your sweet pussy. It is sweet, right?”

She whimpered. Her body craved Logan’s, answered to him, but this man skewed her system in some odd way. Maybe it was because Logan watched with a hot gaze. Had he overheard? Did he want to possess her pussy while Xander plunged his cock into her backside?

His sizzling words played in her head while he glided gentle fingertips over her body. A surge of passion from the audience swelled around her, nearly overcoming her. She could almost feel them holding their collective breath. But nothing affected her more than the need in Logan’s eyes. She swayed closer to him.

With his signature musky heat surrounding her, he approached, all business – and all man. He uncrossed his arms from his chest and settled his fingers over her clit, fondling her without hurry, for no other purpose than to jack up her need and watch her twist. Pleasure jackknifed through her body, a spike of need she found impossible to ignore.

“Is Xander whispering naughty suggestions to you?” He gripped her chin and forced her to meet his gaze.

“Yes, Logan.”

“Every time you say that, Cherry, it goes straight to my cock. You like his suggestions?”

“I’m not sure.” Her breath hitched.

“Let’s experiment,”  Xander murmured for her ears only. “I’d love to lick your creamy little pussy while I watch you suck his cock. Would you like that?”

“Whatever you said,” Logan directed at Xander, “she just got a whole bunch wetter.”

“You’ve got a dirty girl.”

Logan nodded and released her with a wicked smile, and Tara caught her breath. “Let’s see how dirty.”

A moment later, she felt Xander’s finger’s on her pussy, searching, sinking deep, before circling her clit in lip-biting little circles.

“Do you want to come for us, baby?” Logan murmured, spreading kisses across her face, down her neck, then bending to trace his tongue around her clamped nipples.

Her breath caught, froze, at the exquisite sensations racing between her breasts and wet sex. “Yes, Logan. Please…”

“Aww,” Xander crooned as he speared her pussy with two fingers. “She even said please. How sweet.” Then, with a mischievous smile, he withdrew his fingers from her slit and licked them with a groan. “Very, very sweet.”

She flushed all over, tension coiling up under the tight knot of her clit until she thought she’d explode.

”Xander,” Logan growled in warning.

“Just checking.”

“Never,” Logan vowed. “Ever.”

Tara understood his message loud and clear, but he shot her a warning, just in case – an emphatic declaration that, while he’d let Xander touch her for training purposes, there was no fucking way that Logan would ever let it go beyond his right now.

As hot as this scene as, that fact relieved her. Knowing he had no further expectations of what she’d do with or for Xander allowed her to simply relax and enjoy whatever came next.

“I know, I know…” Xander growled. “Just enjoying it while I can.”

And he did, gliding his fingers back inside her. Instantly, he found her G-spot and rubbed, his thumb still circling her clit.

As Logan caressed her sensitive breast, her body caught fire again. It swept through her like a conflagration that she couldn’t control.

“Don’t come before I give you persmission,” he reminded her. “I don’t wnt to have to spank you again tonight.

She drew in a deep breath, closing her eyes to focus inward.

“No. Look at me,” Logan barked. “Always at me.”

Tara opened her eyes, lashes fluttering. Logan grapsed her chin and lifted her face to him for another deep, mad kiss – a tangle of tongues and passion, breathes and desperation. And, God, the need that seized her every muscle as he removed the first of her weighted clamps and the blood roared back into her nipple.

Suddenly, he tore his mouth away and fastened it over the throbbing little bud. A second later, he removed the other clamp, and suddenly Xander’s mouth was there to breath more fire into the aching tips of her breasts. Both men sucked gently on her nipples as Xander plucked at her aching clit with lazy fingers and teased her mercilessly.

She groaned, clenching tight, trying to fight the lure of the pleasure roaring inside her as her heartbeat boomed like a cannon in her ears. With her gaze riveted to Logan’s and his thick-fringed blue eyes silently shouting untold pleasure, Tara nearly lost her restraint.

“Cherry, come now!” he demanded.

Instantly, ecstasy bloomed inside her, expanding outward, alighting every nerve ending in her body. Like a left in the wind, she swayed, arched, but the pleasure kept bowling her over as the men sucked her nipples. She jolted, and her clit pulsed again and again under Xander’s deft fingers.

15 Ways to Channel Your Inner Seductress

Just because he's a sure thing doesn't mean he wouldn't love to be persuaded. Set the scene, drop a hint, make your move — pretty soon you'll both be spellbound.

It used to be so easy: You'd lock eyes across the dance floor, brush your hand along his thigh in the movie theater, linger just a little too long during the kiss goodnight. You remember: At the beginning of your relationship, the tiniest gestures made your man putty in your hands — and got your pulse racing too. But then life intervened. Now, that pleading glance across a crowded room is more likely to mean, Can we leave soon? Letterman starts in 10 minutes!

Hey, there's no reason you can't still channel the seductress you used to be. Your guy might not read as much into your every gesture as he once did, so "you'll probably have to be a little more obvious," says Scott Haltzman, M.D., a REDBOOK Love Network expert and author of The Secrets of Happily Married Men and The Secrets of Happily Married Women. "But not that much — he is still acutely sensitive to his sexual needs and your passionate wiles."

With these 15 sultry moves, you'll not only put a smile on his face, but you'll also strengthen your bond with him — not to mention give yourself the confidence boost that comes with remembering how very sexy you are. And at the next party, you can bet that your early departure will have nothing to do with late-night TV.

FOR SUPERHOT SEX
To switch gears in lovemaking from sweet to spicy, you need to mix things up a bit. "Hot sex is all about the anticipation of something different," says REDBOOK Love Network expert Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of Love in the Time of Colic. "It's about changing your approach and who you think you are in the bedroom. Don't be afraid to take a risk."

• Share a steamy fantasy. Always wanted to go at it in an elevator, à la Fatal Attraction? Been daydreaming about a Grey's-style fling in the hospital on-call room? Tell him. "Maybe it's something you'd never do, like have a threesome, but you could tell your guy about it in the context of a fantasy," Kerner says. "It stimulates the mind in a new way and can lead to unbelievable sex." Let your imagination run wild — just the thought of something totally risqué or out of your comfort zone is enough to get you both hot and bothered.



• Blare rock music. Your beau knows the score when you press play on Marvin Gaye — which is all the more reason to send him a signal that tonight's the night for something different. Pop in AC/DC's Black Ice with a wink and a nudge. The more intense the tunes, the more testosterone will pump through his system. Before you know it, he won't be able to keep his hands off you.



• Get a haircut. Or a new outfit. Or wear red lipstick instead of your typical clear gloss. "Men like variety," says Kerner. "If you're the girl who goes to bed in white undies, throw on a garter belt one night. It lends novelty and excitement and sets the scene for something hotter."

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FOR SWEET LOVIN'
Sometimes you want to have sex just to rekindle the intimacy with your man — and he probably does too. "It's the reason missionary is still the most popular position in the world," Kerner says. "It's about the face-to-face connection, the sharing of affection and emotions." So ramp up the tenderness for a sweet, slow session.

• Make eye contact. When men look at pictures of women in the buff, they're more likely to look at a woman's face first, according to a study by researchers at Emory University. Why? Women can easily tell by looking at naked men whether guys are in the mood, says psychologist and study author Kim Wallen, but women's bodies don't reveal much, which could be why men zoom in on their faces. "It's cryptic," Wallen says, "but facial expressions are one way of showing an indication of interest in and enjoyment of sex." Staring into your lover's eyes lets him know that you're as into him as he is into you.



• Massage his feet. Tickle his back, or rub his belly — anything that makes him feel relaxed. "Stress is one of the biggest obstacles when it comes to arousal for men," says Sharon Moalem, Ph.D., author of How Sex Works. "If you can counteract his cortisol [or stress] levels by relaxing him, then you can set the mood for connective sex." In other words, he'll be able to concentrate on you rather than on those Excel reports due on Friday.



• Look at old pictures together. By doting on memories the two of you have made, you'll trigger those same feelings of overwhelming love (and lust) you had at the beginning of your relationship. "My wife and I will go back and look at photos of the two of us in Italy before we got married or photos from our honeymoon," Kerner says. "It always evokes a feeling of tenderness, wistfulness, and affection."

FOR THE QUINTESSENTIAL QUICKIE
There's a reason they called that old game Seven Minutes in Heaven: because passion can hit even higher levels when it comes in bite-size pieces.

• Try the 90-second make-out. If time is really short, passionately kiss, touch, fondle, and fool around for a minute and a half. "It doesn't always have to lead to sex, though it certainly can," says Kerner. "But even that short amount of time is enough to get you hot and build anticipation for the next time you can touch each other."



• Make a sex date. Know that your kids will be watching Dora the Explorer when they get home from school? Tell your guy you'll have a 15-minute window of opportunity at 4 p.m. and wink. It's an appointment he's sure to keep.



• Text for sex. If you heat things up when you're apart, you'll both be boiling over once you get together. "I have a friend who texted her husband one morning, 'Burning with desire,' " says Haltzman. "On his lunch break, he showed up at home, ready to take her up on her promise. Just knowing that his partner is thinking about it is enough to get any man in the mood."

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FOR AN ALL-NIGHT (OR ALL-MORNING) ROMP
Yes, in a long-term relationship, marathon sex may feel like a luxury you can't really afford, but it shouldn't be off the table altogether. "Make a special point to carve out more time together and dedicate it to sex," Kerner says. The two of you are worth putting something else on hold for.

• Play tennis. Or run together, or climb a mountain, or play a board game. Anything competitive will do. "Competition will spike both of your testosterone levels for extended periods of time," Haltzman says. Translation? You'll be randier for longer.



• Give him a pomegranate martini and a smile. According to a new study from Sussex University, pomegranate juice boosts men's sex drive. The men in the study were found to kiss more passionately after drinking the juice and looked at photos of scantily clad women 16-percent longer than other men. Bottoms up!



• Plan a trip and pack light. Surprise him with a vacation to a beachy destination. Give him the tickets, a skimpy bikini, and note that says, "This is the only thing I'll be wearing the entire time." He'll get the idea. Or, if your budget is tight at the moment, try turning your home into a spa for the night. Take a bubble bath, light oodles of candles, give each other massages, and remind him that the same rules apply: only your teeny-weeny bikini — or birthday suits — allowed.

FOR MAKE-UP MOJO
Big blowups used to mean steamy reunions afterward. Now that life (and fights) are more complex, sex is often the furthest thing from your mind in the wake of an argument. But getting physical might be the very best thing you can do. "Sex is healing," explains Kerner. "It can take you to a place where words often can't."

• Be ready to forgive. "If you want to have make-up sex, you have to be willing to make the first move," Kerner says. "A lot of guys won't initiate make-up sex because they feel like their ego is on the line." Saying a simple "I'm sorry" takes the pressure off him and can get the ball rolling in the right direction (toward the bedroom).



• Tell a joke. Sometimes after a big blowout, the best way to push things in a more harmonious direction is to lighten the mood. "Often after a fight with my wife, there will be a period of silence. Then she'll walk over to me and say, 'What am I going to do about you?' " Kerner says. "It's playful, close, and affectionate, and signals that the fight is over. Often it leads to really great sex too." Try a flirtatious smile to diffuse the tension in the situation, or a sexy joke. You'll send him the message that it's time to kiss and make up. Literally.



• Hug him. "Once you're in his arms and pressing your body up against his, unless he's suffering from hormonal imbalance, he's going to shift his thinking toward sex," Haltzman says. If all else fails: "Take your clothes off and say, 'I want to have sex.' " Before long, neither of you will even remember what you were fighting about.

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Seduction by the Senses

We all know that guys are visual creatures (hence the enduring popularity of the Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue), but that lacy garter number from Victoria's Secret isn't the only way to get your guy revved up. Here's how to seduce him using all five of his senses.

SIGHT
Wear red. Researchers from the University of Rochester in New York had 149 men rate pictures by level of attractiveness of women wearing or framed by white, gray, blue, green, and red. Red won out, possibly because of reinforced cultural norms. "Due to the association with hearts, Valentine's Day, lingerie, and things like that, red takes on a sexy meaning," says study author Andrew Elliot, Ph.D., a professor of psychology at the University of Rochester.

SMELL
Skip the perfume. Your natural body odor is a bigger turn-on than you think. "We each have a distinctive odor that is our very own scent signature," says Sharon Moalem, Ph.D., author of How Sex Works. "That scent has the power to trigger significant arousal and plays an often underappreciated role in the chemistry of attraction." So forget lathering up with lotions after a shower — your scent is the best aphrodisiac.

TASTE
Open up that box of chocolates. Feeding truffles to your guy can be sensual on its own, but the taste of chocolate is associated with the release of serotonin in the brain, a hormone that induces feelings of relaxation and pleasure — similar to what we experience when we fall in love. Sweet!

SOUND
Make some noise! "One of the biggest complaints men have about women is that they are too quiet when it comes to intimacy," Moalem says. You don't have to praise the heavens at the top of your lungs if that makes you uncomfortable, but a simple sigh and "Right there!" goes a long way.

TOUCH
Snuggle. Think men don't like cuddling? Think again. "When men or women get a soothing touch from their partner, the brain releases oxytocin, or the love hormone," says Moalem. "It reaffirms the bond between the two of you, making sex even better."

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